
OK. Here is my Disneyland story. My sister, her two daughters and my son and I went to Disneyland on Thursday. It was such a magical day. It was not very crowded (a very big plus for me), the lines were somewhat short and everyone was having a really great time. We all got along, there were no meltdowns and there truly was some magical dust being sprinkled on us that day.
Well, I suppose every story has to have an unhappy ending of sorts and here it is. We had left the park to eat dinner at Goofy's Kitchen at the Disneyland Hotel so the kids could meet some of the characters. On our way back we walked through a section called Downtown Disney where there are lots of shops and restaurants outside of the park. We stopped in one of the stores so one of the kids could pick out a toy and while we were walking through, a little girl was whining to her mom and said, "let's go to the girl section." I thought that was funny and gave a little chuckle and kept walking. Well, when we got out of the store, my son told me the little girl had jabbed him in the neck. My niece saw it and said the same thing. I was torn, do I make a big deal out of it or just say it was an accident and blow it off? I wanted to just ignore it and keep walking because we were missing the parade but they insisted it was not an accident. So, I thought to myself, I should be a good mom and stick up for my child and go confront the mom.
That is what we did. We went back into the store and looked around for the two unsuspecting bullies and couldn't find them, much to my glee. BUT then the room seemed to go dark and a spot light snapped on and highlighted the little girl with her mom across the room. Everything stood still and you could almost hear crickets chirping. Gulp. Here was my opportunity to set a good example. I held on tight to my son's hand and ever so nicely went up to the little girl and her mom and said "Excuse me but my son told me you poked him in the neck, do you remember doing that?" The little girls eyes opened as big as saucers and just gave me a blank stare. Her mom then asked me very sarcastically when that could have happened and I told her when it was. Then her mom proceeded to suggest it was an accident, I asked the little girl (very, very nicely because I am not mean) if she could have done this accidentally. All I got was a blank stare again. Well, I wanted to drop the whole thing and run far, far away because this was getting uncomfortable but I looked at my son and said that it very well could have been an accident. The incident was ALMOST over. But then the mother had to give me an exasperated sigh and start to WALK AWAY. I'm sorry but you don't just walk away. This is an opportunity to teach your child that if you bump into someone, poke someone or step on someone, you make sure that you didn't hurt that person and maybe say "I'm sorry." So I had to chase the mother and confront her because now this was getting personal. I could tell she was irritated and tired. I remained calm and still was very nice but more insistent this time. Our conversation proceeded with the mother explaining her daughter was only four and a half and she was having a hard night and was suggesting that this didn't happen. I asked her if I should not believe my child and after a few words from her I realized this was going nowhere so I looked at my son and niece and explained to them that this mother does not want to take responsibility for her child and we should go. So we did and the only thing that I can say was good about this incident was that I stuck up for my child. I am not a confrontational person at all so this was WAY out of my comfort zone, but at least my kid knows I have his back when he needs me to. And that's all I have to say about that.
We then went back into the park and went on another ride before we headed home. Overall, it was a great day. Too bad for rude people but I suppose they are everywhere ... even at the happiest place on earth.